Showing posts with label Encouraging message. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Encouraging message. Show all posts

Friday 15 March 2024

๐ŸŽ€Valuable gift๐ŸŽ

 


*A Touching Story*


“In 1979, I was managing a Wendy's in Port Richey, Florida.  


Unlike today, staffing was never a real problem, but I was searching for a someone to work three hours a day only at lunch. I went thru all my applications and most were all looking for full time or at least 20 hours per week. I found one however, buried at the bottom of a four-inch stack that was only looking for lunch part-time. His name was Nicky. 


Hadn't met him but thought I would give him a call and see if he could stop by for an interview. When I called, he wasn't in but his mom said she would make sure he would be there.


At the accorded time, Nicky walked in. One of those moments when my heart went in my throat. Nicky had Downs Syndrome. His physical appearance was a giveaway and his speech only reinforced the obvious. I was young and sheltered. Had never interacted on a professional level with a developmentally disabled person. I had no clue what to do, so I went ahead and interviewed him.

He was a wonderful young man. 

Great outlook.

Task focused. 

Excited to be alive. 


For reasons only God knew at that time, I hired him. 3 hours a day, 3 days a week to run a grill. I let the staff know what to expect. Predictably, the crew made sure I got the message, "no one wants to work with a retard."

To this day I find that word offensive. We had a crew meeting, cleared the air, and prepared for his arrival. Nicky showed up for work right on time.


He was so excited to be working. He stood at the time clock literally shaking with anticipation. He clocked in and started his training. Couldn't multi task, but was a machine on the grill. Now for the fascinating part.....


Back in that day, there were no computer screens to work from. Every order was called by the cashier.


It required a great deal of concentration on the part of all production staff to get the order right.


While Nicky was training during his first shift, the sandwich maker next to him asked the grillman/trainer what was on the next sandwich. 

Nicky replied, "single, no pickle no onion." A few minutes later it happened again. It was then that we discovered Nicky had a hidden and valuable skill.


He memorized everything he heard! Photographic hearing ? WHAT A SKILL ! It took 3 days and every sandwich maker requested to work with Nicky. He immediately was accepted by the entire crew. After his shift he would join the rest of his crew family, drinking Coke like it was water! 


It was then that they discovered another 

Rainman-esque trait. 

Nicky was a walking/talking perpetual calendar! With a perpetual calendar as a reference, they would sit for hours asking him what day of the week was December 22, 1847 or some more. He never missed. This uncanny trait mesmerized the crew.


His mom would come in at 2 to pick him up.

More times than not, the crew would be back there with him hamming it up. 


As I went to get him from the back, his mom said something I will never forget. "Let him stay there as long as he wants.

He has never been accepted anywhere like he has been here." I excused myself and dried my eyes, humbled and broken-hearted at the lesson I just learned.


Nicky had a profound impact on that store. His presence changed a lot of people. Today I believe with every fiber of my body that Nicky's hiring was no accident. God's Timing and Will is Perfect.


We are all like Nicky. 


We each have our shortcomings. We each have our strong points. But we are all of value. God made us that way and God doesn't make mistakes. 


*Nicky certainly wasn't a mistake.*


He was a valuable gift that I am forever grateful for. 


God doesn't care if you are rich or poor, republican or democrat,  black or white. 

He doesn't care if your chromosome structure is perfect. 

He doesn't care what level of education you have attained. 


So let’s check our hearts. ❤️


*There is a little bit of Nicky in all of us and I suspect there is a Nicky somewhere in your life that is looking for the chance to be embraced.*❤️❤️


Monday 17 January 2022

Joy of living๐Ÿ˜Ž

 Wisdom echoes 



John D Rockfeller was once the richest man in the world. The first billionaire in the world.


By age 25 he controlled one of the largest oil refineries in the US. 


By age 31 he had become the world’s largest oil refiner.  


By age 38 he commanded 90% of the oil refined in the U.S.                                          

By 50, he was the richest man in the country.


By the time he died, he had become the richest man in the world. 


As a young man, every decision, attitude, and relationship was tailored to create his personal power and wealth. 


But at the age of 53 he became ill. 


His entire body became racked with pain and he lost all of his hair. In complete agony, the world’s only billionaire could buy anything he wanted, but he could only digest soup and crackers. 


An associate wrote, "He could not sleep, would not smile and nothing in life meant anything to him."


His personal, highly skilled physicians predicted he would die within a year. 


That year passed agonizingly slowly. 


As he approached death he awoke one morning with the vague realisation of not being able to take any of his wealth with him into the next world. 


The man who could control the business world suddenly realized he was not in control of his own life. 


He was left with a choice. 

He called his attorneys, accountants, and managers and announced that he wanted to channel his assets to hospitals, research, and charity work. 


John D. Rockefeller established his Foundation. 


This new direction eventually led to the discovery of penicillin, cures for malaria, tuberculosis and diphtheria. 


But perhaps the most amazing part of Rockefeller’s story is that the moment he began to give back a portion of all that he had earned, his body’s chemistry was altered so significantly that he got better. 


It looked as if he would die at 53 but he lived to be 98.


Rockefeller learned gratitude and gave back the vast majority of his wealth. 

Before his death, he wrote this in his diary: 


"I was taught to work as well as play,

My life has been one long, happy holiday;

Full of work and full of play

I dropped the worry on the way

And God was good to me everyday!"


*The JOY OF GIVING is the JOY OF LIVING*

Friday 19 November 2021

๐Ÿ™The Good Shepherd ๐Ÿ‘

 


Every once in a while, a ewe will give birth to a lamb and reject it. There are many reasons she may do this. If the lamb is returned to the ewe, the mother may even kick the poor animal away. Once a ewe rejects one of her lambs, she will never change her mind.

These little lambs will hang their heads so low that it looks like something is wrong with its neck. Their spirit is broken.

These lambs are called “bummer lambs.” Unless the Shepherd intervenes, that lamb will die, rejected and alone. So, do you know what the Shepherd does?

He takes that rejected little one into His home, hand-feeds it and keeps it warm by the fire. He will wrap it up with blankets and hold it to His chest so the bummer can hear His heartbeat. Once the lamb is strong enough, the Shepherd will place it back in the field with the rest of the flock.

But that sheep never forgets how the Shepherd cared for him when his mother rejected him. When the Shepherd calls for the flock, guess who runs to Him first?

That is right, the bummer sheep. He knows His voice intimately.

It is not that the bummer lamb is loved more, it just knows intimately the One who loves it and has experienced that love one on one.

So many of us are bummer lambs, rejected and broken. But He is the good Shepherd. He cares for our every need and holds us close to His heart so we can hear His heartbeat.

I am a bummer lamb adopted and loved by The Good Shepherd!

Wednesday 17 November 2021

You are not home yet!!


After forty years of faithful service to the Lord as a missionary to Africa, Henry Morrison and his wife were returning to New York.  As the ship neared the dock, Henry said to his wife, "Look at that crowd.  They haven't forgotten about us".  However, unknown to Henry, the ship also carried President Teddy Roosevelt, returning from a big game hunting trip in Africa.  Roosevelt stepped from the boat, with great fanfare, as people were cheering, flags were waving,  bands were playing, and reporters waiting for his comment, Henry and his wife slowly walked away unnoticed.  They hailed a cab, which took them to the one bedroom apartment which had been provided by the mission board. 

 

Over the next few weeks, Henry tried but failed to put the incident behind him.  He was sinking deeper into depression when one evening, he said to his wife, "This is all wrong.  This man comes back from a hunting trip and everybody throws a big party.  We give our lives in faithful service to God for all these many years, but no one seems to care." 

 

His wife cautioned him that he should not feel this way.  Henry replied "I know you're right, but I just can't help it.  It just isn't right."

 

His wife then said, "Henry, you know God doesn't mind if we honestly question Him.  You need to tell this to the Lord and get this settled now.  You'll be useless in His ministry until you do."

 

Henry Morrison then went to his bedroom, got down on his knees and, shades of Habakkuk, began pouring out his heart to the Lord.  "Lord, you know our situation and what's troubling me.  We gladly served you faithfully for years without complaining.  But now God, I just can't get this incident out of my mind..."

 

After about ten minutes of fervent prayer, Henry returned to the living room with a peaceful look on his face.  His wife said "It looks like you've resolved the matter.  What happened?"

 

Henry replied, "The Lord settled it for me.  I told Him how bitter I was that the President received this tremendous homecoming, but no one even met us as we returned home.  When I finished, it seemed as though the Lord put His hand on my shoulder and simply said, 'But Henry, you are not home yet!'" (copied)


It is not yet time to congratulate ourselves neither is it time for us to tell ourselves that we have done enough. Heaven is the home and as long as we are not yet there, we have to keep pressing on.


God help us!

Thursday 30 September 2021

๐ŸšSalt vs Rice๐Ÿ›


 *Very Beautifully written, can’t stop sharing*

*Salt -VS- Rice...*

If you were to cook 3 cups of rice, would you add 3 cups of salt to it ?

Certainly not !

So, in every preparation of rice, the rice always outnumbers the salt, yet a little salt makes a huge difference /impact in the overall outcome.

In the room in which you currently are, look up at the ceiling... 

What is the size of the bulb compared to the size of the room ? 

It is probably a ratio of 1:5000.

Yet, darkness flees the entire space once the small bulb is flipped on.

If I am the salt of the earth, and the light of the world, then "little me" has the ability to make big things happen..

Sometimes, because we feel outnumbered or overwhelmed at the sheer magnitude of evil or wrong-doers, we then choose powerlessness, and decide to go with the flow, not standing up for what we believe is right.

Little doesn't mean insignificant.

You are significant.

Your presence should make a BIG difference. 

Stop waiting to be on the side of the majority.

They may be the majority, but they are the trivial majority, and you are the impactful minority.

They are the rice of the world, and you are the salt of the world..

They are the room and you are the light.

Make your influence felt!

Remember:

You are the world's seasoning, to make it beautiful...

So if we can just do the right seasoning to  make even one life beautiful our life is worth living. 

Have a blessed day๐Ÿ˜Š

Onwards and Upwards ! 

Be the salt or the light in someone's life today๐ŸŒŸ

Thursday 2 September 2021

๐ŸตThe Daffodil day๐Ÿ’




Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must come to see the daffodils before they are over."  I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead "I will come next Tuesday", I promised a little reluctantly on her third call. 


Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren. 


"Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!" 


My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time, Mother."  "Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I'm heading for home!" I assured her. 


"But first we're going to see the daffodils. It's just a few blocks," Carolyn said. "I'll drive. I'm used to this."   


"Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around." "It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience." 


After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read, "Daffodil Garden."  We got out of the car, each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. 


It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain peak and its surrounding slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, and saffron and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted in large groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers. 


"Who did this?" I asked Carolyn.  "Just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modestly sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house. 


On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking", was the headline. The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read. The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain." The third answer was, "Began in 1958." 


For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration. 


Daffodil garden is one of the greatest principles of celebration. 


That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time--often just one baby-step at time--and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world ... 


"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years? Just think what I might have been able to achieve!" 


My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way. "Start tomorrow," she said.


She was right. It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this to use today?" 


Use the Daffodil Principle. Stop waiting.....


Until your car or home is paid off

Until you get a new car or home

Until your kids leave the house 

Until you go back to school

Until you finish school 

Until you clean the house

Until you organize the garage

Until you clean off your desk

Until you lose 10 lbs.

Until you gain 10 lbs.

Until you get married 


Until you have kids

Until the kids go to school

Until you retire

Until summer

Until spring

Until winter

Until fall

Until you die..


There is no better time than right now to be happy . 


Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

So work like you don't need money.

Love like you've never been hurt, and, Dance like no one's watching. 


If you want to brighten someone's day, pass this on to someone special.


I just did!


Wishing you a beautiful, daffodil day!

Sunday 29 August 2021

Emotional Intelligence




A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!   I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the car’s rear!


“Physically challenged; Please be patient.”


And that changed everything!! 


I immediately went calm & slowed down!! 


In fact, I got a little protective of the car & the driver!!! 


I reached home a few minutes late, but it was ok!


And then it struck me.  


Would I have been patient if there was no sticker?


Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!?


Will we be more patient & kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads?


Labels like —


“ Lost my job” , 

“Fighting cancer”, 

“Going through a bad divorce”,

“Suffering Emotional abuse",

"Lost a loved one”,

“Feeling worthless”,

“Financially broken”,


....and more like these!!


Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about. 


The least we can do is to be patient, kind & compassionate.


*Let us respect the Invisible Labels !!*

Knowing each is carrying multiple ones.

Thursday 19 August 2021

EVERYTHING HAS A REASON TO BE ✨๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿ™Œ

 


After the attacks of September 11, a company that had its offices at the World Trade Center invited its executives and employees who had for some reason survived the attack to share their experiences.


People were alive for the smallest reasons were small details like these:


- The director of a company was late because it was his son's first kindergarten day;


- A woman was delayed because her alarm clock didn't ring in time;


- One was late because he was stuck on the road where there was an accident;


- Another survivor missed the bus;


- Someone threw food on themselves and needed the time to change;


- One had a problem with his car, which did not start;


- Another one returned to answer the phone;


- Another one had a baby!


- Another didn't get a taxi.


- But the story that impressed the most was that of a man who put on a new pair of shoes that morning, and before he got to work he had a blister. He stopped at the pharmacy for a band aid and that's why he's alive today.


- Now when I get stuck in traffic; - when I lose an elevator;

- when I return to answering a phone;

And many other things that desperate me, I think first:


′′ This is the exact place you should be right now "...


- Next time your morning seems crazy, the kids take time to get dressed, don't find the car keys, find all the red lights...

- don't get angry or frustrated.


YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE... AT THE EXACT TIME.


-copied

Monday 19 July 2021

Master piece- motivated thoughts


 When God made you He saw that you were good....


If only He had found faults in you He would have reworked on you.....


Never give in to the lie that you are short of perfection...


Your maker is a maker of perfect things.....


He has never been and can never be wrong...


When people say that you are good for nothing....


Tell them that your Father God is upto something....


He did not create you and then assign a work for you....


He made a plan and to execute that He created you with a purpose....


Your life is purpose driven!


*Psalm 139:14*


*I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well*


YES YOU ARE HIS MASTER PIECE! HE FINDS NO FLAW IN YOU!! PRAISE GOD FOR YOU ARE OF INCREDIBLE WORTH!!!

Monday 5 July 2021

๐Ÿ…Rejected veggie ๐Ÿฅ’- encouraging thought

 


A mother used to cook beans. But before cooking, she picked out the bad and dirty ones and threw them at her backyard.

.

When it  rained the dirty and bad looking beans became seeds and grew up, offering a beautiful look.  Interestingly, the person who threw them away started harvesting them, now. She began to feel the worth of the discarded beans.


1. Don't worry when people throw you at the backyard.


2. Don't cry when they reject you.


3. Don't be sad when they look down upon you.


When it rains the same people who rejected you will invite you.


God loves even those that are left out and looked down upon.

God will bless you, just stay connected to him and everyone will see how valuable you are. You are no more a rejected stone but a cornerstone. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Wednesday 19 May 2021

๐ŸฆHe not only forgives, but He forgets- ๐Ÿฆ†Duck story๐Ÿฆข

 


A little boy was visiting his grandparents on their farm. And he was given a slingshot to play with, out in the woods. He practiced in the woods but he could never hit the target. And getting a little discouraged; he headed back to dinner.

As he was walking back he saw Grandma’s pet duck. Just out of impulse, he let it fly, hit the duck soiree in the head, and killed it. He was shocked and grieved.

In a panic, he hid the dead duck in the woodpile, only to see his sister watching. Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing.

After lunch that day Grandma said, “Sally, let’s wash the dishes.” But Sally said, “Grandma, Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen today, didn’t you Johnny?” And then she whispered to him, “Remember, the duck?”

So Johnny did the dishes.

Later, Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing, and Grandma said, “I am sorry but I need Sally to help make supper.” But Sally smiled and said, “Well, that’s all right, because Johnny told me he wanted to help.” And she whispered again, “Remember, the duck?”

So Sally went fishing and Johnny stayed.

After several days of Johnny doing both his chores and Sally’s, he finally couldn’t stand it any longer. He came to Grandma and confessed that he killed the duck. She knelt, hugged him, and said, “Sweetheart, I know. You see, I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing. But because I love you, I forgave you.

But I was just wondering how long you would let Sally make you a slave.”

I don’t know what’s in your past.

I don’t know what one sin the enemy keeps throwing up in your face. But whatever it is, I want you to know something.

The Lord Jesus Christ was standing at the window. And He saw the whole thing. But because He loves you, He has forgiven you. Perhaps He’s wondering how long you’ll let the enemy make a slave out of you. The great thing about God is that He not only forgives, but He forgets.

Thursday 13 May 2021

๐Ÿ› The fence story๐Ÿ”ฉ-๐Ÿคฏ controlling Anger๐Ÿฅต


There once was a young boy with a very bad temper. The boy's father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.


On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!


Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his anger, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.


It wasn't long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.


Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn't lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn't wait to tell his father.


Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.


Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.


Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.


"You have done very well, my son," he smiled, "but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same."


The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.


"When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wounds will still be there."




Saturday 8 May 2021

True story- ๐Ÿ‘ณ‍♂️India took revenge ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ณ

 


A story by Manish Nandi

How India took revenge on a person

who hated India. Will gladden cockles your heart!

.

She hated almost everything in the country India, and I guess she needed to find something to like in Calcutta . I was that person

Our quiet and reserved neighbours in Calcutta, the Thorntons, New Zealanders who referred to themselves as Kiwi people, had just moved out. ¹My father said his next colleague, an American, would move in shortly with his family.

Ten days later I was struggling with my high school homework when the doorbell rang. A pleasant-faced but brusque-mannered woman in her 30s asked if I understood English and, when I nodded, wanted to speak with my mother. I explained, in English, that my mother worked and was never home during the day. Surprised that an Indian housewife worked outside her home and an Indian boy spoke English, she asked for a favour. If I could please come and explain something to her two domestic employees that she hadn’t been able to convey.

Both the employees, a cleaner and a cook, said they understood the Thorntons’ English but were befuddled by her American accent. I explained the instructions in both Hindi and English, and then suggested to Edna, who had meanwhile told me her name, that she needed to speak to them slowly and perhaps with a clipped accent. She appreciated my help, but felt that, as a true New Yorker, she would have a tough time altering her speaking style.

Then, in a friendly gesture, she offered me a glass of Coca-Cola and watched wide-eyed as I drank it unhesitatingly. 

Then she said she would like to teach me a game that she loved before but hadn’t been able to play in Calcutta, not knowing who knew English well enough. The game was Scrabble. She warned me that she was a skilled player, and I shouldn’t mind losing a duel with her. “You will get better as you play with me,” she added encouragingly. We started. She was a little amazed that I used words she hadn’t expected me to know and one time had to consult a dictionary when I applied a longer word she didn’t know. Edna didn’t know that words and their structure interested me, and she was struck dumb when I won the match.


She needed a friend. She said that her husband, with his soft-spoken style and self-effacing demeanor, had become quickly popular in India, but she hadn’t a person to talk to. Frankly, she said, she disliked spicy Indian food, impenetrable Indian languages, messy Indian clothes, noisy Indian cities and the smelly Indians she had so far encountered. They seemed shifty and unreliable to her. I somehow appeared to her somewhat different. She detested almost everything in India, and I guess she needed to find something to like in Calcutta. I was that person. We became friends.

In the ensuing months she called me often. She needed my help to understand other people, doctors or servants, to explain her intent to other people, dress or furniture makers, to guide her about mangoes and markets, taxis and textiles. I met and liked her husband, Desmond, and saw immediately why he would be easily adaptable to Indian people and their ways. For Edna, Calcutta, in fact anything Indian, remained an enduring and execrable enigma. None of my interpretations or explanations worked. She loathed it all.

Our friendship ended when my parents moved out to another home in a different part of the city. 


Thirty years later, I was working in the World Bank in the US and talking to a New Yorker colleague who had been in India. He mentioned Desmond, saying that he had died and his wife had settled in a town near Washington. He gave me Edna’s phone number.

When I called her Friday, Edna recognised me in a second and warmly insisted that we talk face-to-face. She suggested that I come over to her place after office, stay the night and return the following morning. She said she would get me the pyjamas and a toothbrush. Such insistence was not customary in the US, but it sounded affectionate and well-meant and I agreed.

I took the hour-long bus trip and, as we approached the bus terminal, wondered how I would identify her after all these years. But I was the only non-white person in the bus in formal clothes, and Edna came forward in a second and hugged me.

When we arrived at her place, I had a shock. It could have been an Indian home. Every piece of furniture, every artifact, even every curtain or cushion was Indian. The rug on the floor was Indian, so were the framed pictures on the wall of the Red Fort and Dal Lake and an antique colonial-era map of India.

She served me Makaibari tea with some pakoras, and, when I offered to take her out for dinner, countermanded it promptly by saying that she has already cooked Basmati rice and chicken butter-masala for me.

I was speechless for minutes. When I recovered my tongue, I made bold to ask what had happened to change her view, since, the last I knew, she detested much of India – “with passion,” she added. What she then told me was a remarkable tale. 


It was not literature, philosophy or culture that turned her mind around. It was simply the ordinary people of India, the street folk and bazaar vendors and domestic employees who altered her perspective.

“I began with endless distrust,” said Edna, “I assumed they were out to cheat me and take advantage of a naรฏve foreigner. Day by day the exact opposite happened. I would buy bananas, and the poor vendor would choose the best for me, return the excessive amount I had paid. The cleaner would find and give me the cash I had carelessly dropped in the kitchen. The cook gave me and my husband the best pieces of meat, to keep only the bones for himself. Day by day, they taught me a lesson I couldn’t overlook.

“Every time I went out, a fruit seller would pester me to buy his stuff. I refused, for I wanted to buy from the market next door where I would have more choice. One day, out on the street, the heel of my shoe came off. I didn’t know how to walk back home. The fruit seller came running, made me sit on his empty fruit basket, left with the broken shoe and came back in ten minutes with it repaired, put it on my foot and would not take a cent. I insisted, he refused. I doubt anybody would have done that for me in New York.”

Edna smiled, “Yes, I hated India with passion. And India took revenge. It just made me into an Indian.”


Monday 8 March 2021

๐Ÿ“งWise message from BIBLE ๐Ÿ“—


 A beautiful write up... I love this...just flip through it


*WISE WORDS*


```In life, some may walk, others may run, but remember the Lord gave the tortoise and the horse the same days to reach Noah's ark. Your journey might be rough and tough but you will definitely get to your destination.

Jacob looked at Joseph and saw a good son! The ten brothers looked at Joseph and saw a useless dreamer! The travellers looked at Joseph and saw a slave!! Potiphar looked at Joseph and saw a fine servant!! Potiphar's wife looked at Joseph and saw a potential boyfriend! The prison officers saw in Joseph a prisoner! How wrong were all of them! God looked at Joseph and saw a Prime Minister of Egypt in waiting!! Don't be discouraged by what people see in you!! Be encouraged by what God sees in you!! Never underrate the person next to you because you never know what the Lord has deposited in that person. Your maid may be a Chief Executive Officer in waiting for a company which shall employ your child. Your garden-boy may be a president in waiting. (Remember David got the anointing of becoming a King while he was a simple child herding sheep. Esther was a simple orphaned girl yet she was a Queen in waiting). Let's share God's love and make the world a better place to live. Show that love by sharing this message with those you love.

IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW PEOPLE SEE YOU, IT MATTERS HOW GOD SEES YOU

God is God:

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *age*, no wonder he blessed Abraham.

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *experience*, no wonder he chose David.

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *gender,* no wonder he lifted Esther.

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *your past*, no wonder he called Paul.

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *your physical appearance*, no wonder he chose Zacchaeus

(the shortest one).

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *fluency in speech* , no wonder he chose Moses.

๐ŸฝHe doesn't care about *your career*, no wonder he choose Mary Magdalene; a prostitute. 

All I know is that my God never changes

๐ŸฝHe never made *a promise he wouldn't keep*๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿพ

He never saw *a person he wouldn't help*๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿพ

๐ŸฝHe never heard *a prayer he wouldn't answer*๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿพ

๐Ÿ–ผHe never found *a soul he wouldn't love*๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿพ

๐ŸฝHe never found *a sinner he wouldn't forgive*๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿพ

This is the kind of God I would like to commune with every day the moment I wake up. I strongly recommend Him to you.```

Saturday 28 November 2020

Sets of people in our lives




*YOU NEED THEM IN YOUR LIFE...*



No human being is an island and no tree can make a forest. You need the following sets of people in your life.

1. *THE ENCOURAGERS* - even in discouraging situations of life, these people keep you going with encouraging words; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

2. *THE HAND LIFTERS* - They are those whose hands are strong enough to hold yours up when you are weak; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

3. *DESTINY HELPERS* - They provide shoulders upon which you ride to fulfilling your dream and destiny; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

4. *The GIVERS* - these ones will give you their time, talent, and treasure in your hour of need;

MAY YOU MEET THEM.

5. *THE RECOMMENDERS* - these are the ones who mention your name in quarters where your skills and talents will be celebrated; MAY YOU MEET THEM.

6. *The CORRECTORS* - these are the ones who honestly tell you when you are wrong; they prevent you from digging a grave of mistakes that may bury your destiny; MAY YOU MEET

THEM.

7. *THE BURDEN BEARERS*: These are those that are ever willing to wipe away tears from your eyes and help you to overcome any loss, crisis or challenge. MAY YOU MEET THEM.

# Nurture every positive relationship in your life because each good person that comes into your life has a major role to play in your life.

Tuesday 3 November 2020

Motivated story - ANT's journey ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿœ

 


*A very interesting story*


One Sunday morning, a wealthy man sat in his balcony enjoying sunshine and his coffee when a little ant caught his eye which was going from one side to the other side of the balcony carrying a big leaf several times more than its size.


 The man watched it for more than an hour. He saw that the ant faced many obstacles during its journey, paused, took a diversion and then continued towards destination.


At one point the tiny creature came across a crack in the floor. It paused for a little while, analyzed and then laid the huge leaf over the crack, walked over the leaf, picked the leaf on the other side then continued its journey.


The man was captivated by the cleverness of the ant, one of God’s tiniest creatures. The incident left the man in awe and forced him to contemplate over the miracle of Creation. It showed the Greatness of the Creator. 


In front of his eyes there was this tiny creature of God, lacking in size yet equipped with a brain to analyze, contemplate, reason, explore, discover and overcome.


A while later the man saw that the creature had reached its destination – a tiny hole in the floor which was entrance to its underground dwelling.


 And it was at this point that the ant’s shortcoming that it shared with the man was revealed. 


How could the ant carry into the tiny hole the large leaf that it had managed to carefully bring to the destination? It simply couldn't! So the tiny creature, after all the painstaking and hard work and exercising great skills, overcoming all the difficulties along the way, just left behind the large leaf and went home empty-handed.


The ant had not thought about the end before it began its challenging journey and in the end the large leaf was nothing more than a burden to it. 


The creature had no option, but to leave it behind to reach its destination. 


The man learned a great lesson that day.


That is the truth about our lives too.


We worry about our family, we worry about our job, we worry about how to earn more money, we worry about where we should live, what kind of vehicle to buy, what kind of dresses to wear, what gadgets to upgrade, only to abandon all these things when we reach our destination – We don’t realize in our life’s journey that these are just burdens that we are carrying with utmost care and fear of losing them, only to find that at the end they are useless and we can’t take them with us.....


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Sunday 11 October 2020

Granny's love๐Ÿ‘ด๐Ÿ‘ต♥️

 


*WHO is a Grandmother?*

๐ŸŽ…๐Ÿคถ


✍written by 

a class of 7-year-olds

๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿป

You'll love it... 


๐Ÿ˜˜Grandma is 

a lady  

who has no little children of her own because they are all grown up. 


๐Ÿ˜˜She likes other people's children.


๐Ÿ˜˜A grandmother  is a woman, and an intelligent  lady!         ๐Ÿ˜˜ A grandma has a special relationship with God that she is proud of 


๐Ÿ˜˜Grandma s don't have to do anything except be there when we come to see her. 


๐Ÿ˜˜She s old and shouldn't play hard or run.  


๐Ÿ˜˜It is good if she drives us to the shops and give us money. 


๐Ÿ˜˜When she takes us for walks, they slow down past things like pretty leaves and caterpillars. 


๐Ÿ˜˜She shows us and talk to us about the colors of the flowers and also why we shouldn't step on 'cracks.' 


๐Ÿ˜˜They don't say, 'Hurry up.' 


๐Ÿ˜˜Usually they are so clever they know all answers ... 


๐Ÿ˜˜She wears glasses and smart dresses 


๐Ÿ˜˜She can take her teeth  out. 


๐Ÿ˜˜Grandma show the greatest love than our parents. 


๐Ÿ˜˜She has to answer questions like 'Why isn't God married?' and 'How come dogs chase cats?' 


๐Ÿ˜˜When she reads to us, she does n't skip.  


๐Ÿ˜˜She does n't mind if we ask for the same story over again. 


๐Ÿ˜˜Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don't have television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with us...


๐Ÿ˜˜She knows if we should have snack time before bed time.


๐Ÿ˜˜She say prayers with us and kiss us even when we've acted bad. 


๐Ÿ˜˜Grandma is the smartest woman on earth!  


๐Ÿ˜˜She teaches me good things, but I don't get to see her enough to get as smart as she is.


 



๐Ÿ‘It will make their day.

๐Ÿง”Father's handprints ๐Ÿ‘

~Father's handprints ~  ✋๐Ÿฝ ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿฝ ๐Ÿคš๐Ÿฝ  Father had grown old and would take support of the wall while walking. As a result the walls had ...