Showing posts with label motivated thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivated thoughts. Show all posts

Friday 15 March 2024

๐ŸŽ€Valuable gift๐ŸŽ

 


*A Touching Story*


“In 1979, I was managing a Wendy's in Port Richey, Florida.  


Unlike today, staffing was never a real problem, but I was searching for a someone to work three hours a day only at lunch. I went thru all my applications and most were all looking for full time or at least 20 hours per week. I found one however, buried at the bottom of a four-inch stack that was only looking for lunch part-time. His name was Nicky. 


Hadn't met him but thought I would give him a call and see if he could stop by for an interview. When I called, he wasn't in but his mom said she would make sure he would be there.


At the accorded time, Nicky walked in. One of those moments when my heart went in my throat. Nicky had Downs Syndrome. His physical appearance was a giveaway and his speech only reinforced the obvious. I was young and sheltered. Had never interacted on a professional level with a developmentally disabled person. I had no clue what to do, so I went ahead and interviewed him.

He was a wonderful young man. 

Great outlook.

Task focused. 

Excited to be alive. 


For reasons only God knew at that time, I hired him. 3 hours a day, 3 days a week to run a grill. I let the staff know what to expect. Predictably, the crew made sure I got the message, "no one wants to work with a retard."

To this day I find that word offensive. We had a crew meeting, cleared the air, and prepared for his arrival. Nicky showed up for work right on time.


He was so excited to be working. He stood at the time clock literally shaking with anticipation. He clocked in and started his training. Couldn't multi task, but was a machine on the grill. Now for the fascinating part.....


Back in that day, there were no computer screens to work from. Every order was called by the cashier.


It required a great deal of concentration on the part of all production staff to get the order right.


While Nicky was training during his first shift, the sandwich maker next to him asked the grillman/trainer what was on the next sandwich. 

Nicky replied, "single, no pickle no onion." A few minutes later it happened again. It was then that we discovered Nicky had a hidden and valuable skill.


He memorized everything he heard! Photographic hearing ? WHAT A SKILL ! It took 3 days and every sandwich maker requested to work with Nicky. He immediately was accepted by the entire crew. After his shift he would join the rest of his crew family, drinking Coke like it was water! 


It was then that they discovered another 

Rainman-esque trait. 

Nicky was a walking/talking perpetual calendar! With a perpetual calendar as a reference, they would sit for hours asking him what day of the week was December 22, 1847 or some more. He never missed. This uncanny trait mesmerized the crew.


His mom would come in at 2 to pick him up.

More times than not, the crew would be back there with him hamming it up. 


As I went to get him from the back, his mom said something I will never forget. "Let him stay there as long as he wants.

He has never been accepted anywhere like he has been here." I excused myself and dried my eyes, humbled and broken-hearted at the lesson I just learned.


Nicky had a profound impact on that store. His presence changed a lot of people. Today I believe with every fiber of my body that Nicky's hiring was no accident. God's Timing and Will is Perfect.


We are all like Nicky. 


We each have our shortcomings. We each have our strong points. But we are all of value. God made us that way and God doesn't make mistakes. 


*Nicky certainly wasn't a mistake.*


He was a valuable gift that I am forever grateful for. 


God doesn't care if you are rich or poor, republican or democrat,  black or white. 

He doesn't care if your chromosome structure is perfect. 

He doesn't care what level of education you have attained. 


So let’s check our hearts. ❤️


*There is a little bit of Nicky in all of us and I suspect there is a Nicky somewhere in your life that is looking for the chance to be embraced.*❤️❤️


Sunday 5 September 2021

๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐ŸซSpecialty of teachers ๐Ÿ‘ฉ‍๐Ÿซ

 


An old man meets a young man who asks:


“Do you remember me?”⁴


And the old man says no. Then the young man tells him he was his student, And the teacher asks:


“What do you do, what do you do in life?”


The young man answers:


“Well, I became a teacher.”


“ah, how good, like me?” Asks the old man.


“Well, yes. In fact, I became a teacher because you inspired me to be like you.”


The old man, curious, asks the young man at what time he decided to become a teacher. And the young man tells him the following story:


“One day, a friend of mine, also a student, came in with a nice new watch, and I decided I wanted it.


I stole it, I took it out of his pocket.


Shortly after, my friend noticed that his watch was missing and immediately complained to our teacher, who was you.


Then you addressed the class saying, ‘This student's watch was stolen during classes today. Whoever stole it, please return it.’


I didn't give it back because I didn't want to.


You closed the door and told us all to stand up and form a circle.


You were going to search our pockets one by one until the watch was found.


However, you told us to close our eyes, because you would only look for his watch if we all had our eyes closed.


We did as instructed.


You went from pocket to pocket, and when you went through my pocket, you found the watch and took it. You kept searching everyone's pockets, and when you were done you said ‘open your eyes. We have the watch.’


You didn't tell on me and you never mentioned the episode. You never said who stole the watch either. That day you saved my dignity forever. It was the most shameful day of my life.


But this is also the day I decided not to become a thief, a bad person, etc. You never said anything, nor did you even scold me or take me aside to give me a moral lesson.


I received your message clearly.


Thanks to you, I understood what a real educator needs to do.


Do you remember this episode, professor?


The old professor answered, ‘Yes, I remember the situation with the stolen watch, which I was looking for in everyone’s pocket. I didn't remember you, because I also closed my eyes while looking.’


_This is the essence of teaching : one need not humiliate to teach._


_*Happy Teachers day !*_

Monday 19 July 2021

Master piece- motivated thoughts


 When God made you He saw that you were good....


If only He had found faults in you He would have reworked on you.....


Never give in to the lie that you are short of perfection...


Your maker is a maker of perfect things.....


He has never been and can never be wrong...


When people say that you are good for nothing....


Tell them that your Father God is upto something....


He did not create you and then assign a work for you....


He made a plan and to execute that He created you with a purpose....


Your life is purpose driven!


*Psalm 139:14*


*I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well*


YES YOU ARE HIS MASTER PIECE! HE FINDS NO FLAW IN YOU!! PRAISE GOD FOR YOU ARE OF INCREDIBLE WORTH!!!

Saturday 19 June 2021

You are the best- motivational thought

 


Comparisons


Shweta covered a distance of 10 km in one hour.


Akash covered the same distance in one and a half hours.


Which of the two is faster and healthier??


 Of course our answer will be Shweta.


What if we say that Shweta covered this distance on a prepared track while Akash did it by walking on a sandy path???


Then our answer will be Akash.

 

But when we come to know that Shweta is 50 years old while Akash is 25 years old??


Then our answer will be Shweta again.


But we also come to know that Akash's weight is 140 kg while Shweta's weight is 65 kg.


 Again our answer will be Akash 


As we learn more about Akash and Shweta, our opinions and judgments about who is better will change.

The reality of life is also similar. We form opinions very superficially and hastily, due to which we are not able to do justice to ourselves and others.

 

 Opportunities vary.

 Life is different.

 Resources differ.

 Problems change.

Solutions are different.


Therefore the excellence of life is not in comparing with anyone but in testing oneself.


 You are the best. Stay as you are and keep trying your best according to your  circumstances.


 Stay healthy, stay cool, stay satisfied, keep smiling, keep laughing, keep on serving society and the country.

Monday 15 February 2021

God is with us always- inspiring story

 


Every year Martin's parents took him to his grandmother's house for the summer break, and they would return home on the same train the next day.

Then one day the boy says to his parents:

′′ I'm pretty big now. What if I went to grandma's house alone this year?"

After a brief discussion parents agree.

Here they are standing on the train station wharf, greeting him, giving him one last tip through the window, as Martin continues to repeat:

′′ I know, you've already told me a hundred times...!"

Train is about to leave and father whispers:

′′ My son, if you suddenly feel bad or scared, this is for you! ′′

And he slips something into his pocket.


Now the boy is alone, sitting on the train, without his parents, for the first time...

He looks at the scenery through the window that scrolls..

Around him strangers hustle, make noise, enter and exit the compartment, the controller comments him that he is alone.. A person even gives him a sad look...

So the boy is feeling more uncomfortable...

And now he's scared.

He lowers his head, snuggles in a corner of the seat, tears rise to his eyes.

At that point he remembers his father putting something in his pocket.

With a trembling hand he seeks to grop this piece of paper, he opens it:

′′ Son, I'm in the last wagon..."


This is how it is in life...

When God sent us in this world, all by ourselves, HE has also slipped a note in our pocket,

*MY CHILD,  I AM IN THE LAST WAGON ❤️*

*So trust him, have faith in him, our (BIG DADDY) GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US, in the last wagon.*



Tuesday 3 November 2020

Motivated story - ANT's journey ๐Ÿœ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿœ

 


*A very interesting story*


One Sunday morning, a wealthy man sat in his balcony enjoying sunshine and his coffee when a little ant caught his eye which was going from one side to the other side of the balcony carrying a big leaf several times more than its size.


 The man watched it for more than an hour. He saw that the ant faced many obstacles during its journey, paused, took a diversion and then continued towards destination.


At one point the tiny creature came across a crack in the floor. It paused for a little while, analyzed and then laid the huge leaf over the crack, walked over the leaf, picked the leaf on the other side then continued its journey.


The man was captivated by the cleverness of the ant, one of God’s tiniest creatures. The incident left the man in awe and forced him to contemplate over the miracle of Creation. It showed the Greatness of the Creator. 


In front of his eyes there was this tiny creature of God, lacking in size yet equipped with a brain to analyze, contemplate, reason, explore, discover and overcome.


A while later the man saw that the creature had reached its destination – a tiny hole in the floor which was entrance to its underground dwelling.


 And it was at this point that the ant’s shortcoming that it shared with the man was revealed. 


How could the ant carry into the tiny hole the large leaf that it had managed to carefully bring to the destination? It simply couldn't! So the tiny creature, after all the painstaking and hard work and exercising great skills, overcoming all the difficulties along the way, just left behind the large leaf and went home empty-handed.


The ant had not thought about the end before it began its challenging journey and in the end the large leaf was nothing more than a burden to it. 


The creature had no option, but to leave it behind to reach its destination. 


The man learned a great lesson that day.


That is the truth about our lives too.


We worry about our family, we worry about our job, we worry about how to earn more money, we worry about where we should live, what kind of vehicle to buy, what kind of dresses to wear, what gadgets to upgrade, only to abandon all these things when we reach our destination – We don’t realize in our life’s journey that these are just burdens that we are carrying with utmost care and fear of losing them, only to find that at the end they are useless and we can’t take them with us.....


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Wednesday 2 September 2020

Moral story- Be patient ๐Ÿคน‍♂️Trust Life๐Ÿงš‍♂️

 Excellent ๐Ÿ‘Œ Moral



The little boy came from school on Saturday and told his father, my teacher has given us home-work to Hug 10 people and tell them - "Be patient, trust life and I Love you".


The Dad said - "OK, we will go to the Mall tomorrow morning and do it".


The child woke up all spirited up in the morning, got ready. Went to his Dad and said - "lets go!!"


The father said - "there is Heavy rainfall, I fear nobody might be there".


The Child still insisted. So the Father drove in the horrible rainy weather to the Mall.


They stood in the mall for 1 hour, and the little boy hugged 9 people.

His father then said - "now lets go, its raining heavily and we shouldn't get stuck!"


Sad the son went along with his father's orders. As they where driving past, the child pointed at a random house. Said - "please dad, just 1 person is remaining, I will go to that house and complete my homework"!


The father smiled and pulled the car over.


The child went to the door and began to ring the bell and pound the door strongly with his knuckles. He kept waiting. Finally the door was opened gently.


A lady came out with a very sad look and gently asked:


"What can I do for you, son?


With radiant eyes and a bright smile the child said:

"Ma'am my teacher has told to Hug 10 people and tell them - "Be patient, trust life and I Love you".

I have hugged 9. May I hug you and pass the message to you.


The Lady embraced him, and started crying profusely.


On seeing that the Boy's father came out of the car. He went to the lady and asked - "Any problem madam?"


She composed herself, took them inside, gave them a cup of tea and then told his father -

"My husband died a while ago leaving me totally alone in this world. Today morning the loneliness took over me. Since morning I have been thinking that this is the end of the road for me.


Then I took a chair and a rope to my bedroom and decided to end my life. As I was seeing the world for one last time, I begged for forgiveness to GOD and then heard this knock. I thought to leave it. But then nobody comes to visit me.

When I opened the door, I couldn't believe what my eyes saw this little child. And when he said , "Be patient, trust life and I Love you".

I knew it was a message from God.

Suddenly I realized I don't want to die anymore, and have decided to make something productive of my life.


*REMEMBER - Give positive thoughts to people.*

*Tell them you stand by them.*

*And even if nothing, just listen to them.*


You could be the medium that saves a life.!


๐Ÿง”Father's handprints ๐Ÿ‘

~Father's handprints ~  ✋๐Ÿฝ ๐Ÿ–๐Ÿฝ ๐Ÿคš๐Ÿฝ  Father had grown old and would take support of the wall while walking. As a result the walls had ...